In a recent post, ‘Rejection is Redirection’, I touched on the subject of being made redundant and the benefits of taking a break to reset and refresh. With that thought in mind I decided to go away for a week and to drive up to the Lake District in my camper van, the objective being to enjoy a change of scene and pace, and with a view to disrupt my routine. In search of an immersion in nature and a digital detox, I was somewhat delighted to arrive at my first campsite in Great Langdale, just a couple of miles from Ambleside, to discover I had no phone reception. That meant no WhatsApp, texts, emails, social media, no phone connectivity at all… BLISS! I appreciate this would freak some people out, but I really found it joyful.
Being in nature is like soul food for me. Every day the volume of the birdsong in the campsite was dialled up to the max, every sound, every animal distinguishable by the sound it makes – both at dawn and dusk. I chose to stay in Great Langdale in a small National Trust campsite which is located in the Lake District National Park, a stone’s throw from Ambleside at the tip of Lake Windermere, for its remoteness. A welcome retreat from a hectic and stressful few months.
Fun fact – The name Windermere originates from a derivative of a tenth century Norse chief called Vinandr and the word Mere, means an Old English word for a body of water. Previous spellings include “Wynhendermere” and “Winandemere”.
Getting organised before I left home with GPX gravel bike routes downloaded onto my Garmin to save on phaffage, I was set for a few days gentle riding. Well, in reality there’s nothing gentle about gravel riding in the Lakes. Whilst there are many shared walking and cycling routes that run parallel to the narrow bendy roads that have great relatively smooth surfaces, you don’t have to go far do find some ‘challenging’ terrain! With 25% inclines and boulders the size of my head, I abandoned a few paths and rerouted (in short, followed my nose) back to more ridable territory – think more bike than hike.

During these rides I discovered the delights of Rydal Water. Located just south of Grasmere at the foot of Loughrigg Fell in the Rothay Valley, it’s the perfect place for a gentle dip and swim to take the edge of the 30-degree heat and cool down. I’m not a strong swimmer so it was handy to swim out to a little rocky island in the middle and take a rest before my return to the shore.

The joy of reading – a book
In the evening after my pedals and swimming antics, with my phone out of action other than telling the time, I opened a book titled ‘Great and Precious Things’, yes, the paper variety, not the Kindle kind, and immersed myself in the print on the pages. Described as “a heart-wrenching story about family, betrayal, and what we’re willing to sacrifice for those who need us most”, it’s not my usual cup of tea. However, reading this book struck a chord with me. Why? Because the main female character ‘Willow’, like me, is an artist and she has a passion for colour and in the book, I read about how she uses colour in her life and her home, to enhance how she feels and her wellbeing.
Over the years I’ve purposefully chosen to read many books about colour, colour psychology, colour therapy, colour healing, but never have I picked up a book because the title caught my attention, to discover I share the same passions as the main character. This raised the thought that the more aware I become, the more synchronicities I become aware of every day. Discovering each one makes me smile.
Feel the fear and do it anyway
I appreciate this is the title of a very good book, but here I’m referring to doing something that takes me out of my comfort zone. Having whisked myself away from Langdale to see a good friend for a couple of days near Middleborough, I returned to the Lakes, but this time to Low Wray National Trust campsite. I’d chosen this one because it’s located right on the edge of Lake Windermere, the perfect spot for an evening swim and stretch after more, bumpy, twisty, gravel bike adventures.

So, taking myself outside my comfort zone, I hired a paddle board for two hours – TWO HOURS, and went out solo! What initially felt like it was going to be very long time, passed super-fast. I paddled down the lake towards Wray Castle with a tail wind so moved faster than expected. It took a little longer to paddle back with a head wind but I got to explore a different aspect of the lake and see different views, whilst also pausing half way to sit down and eat my ginger cake! Note of caution – sit down to eat when on a paddle board, especially if you’re a newbie.

Rediscovering the graffiti artist in me
Whilst away I felt the urge to paint, so on returning home decided to get creative. I’ve not painted simply for the joy of painting for a while. Several years ago, I sold my paintings in a few galleries in the UK (London, Nottingham, Surrey, Sussex) and a small part of me told myself “You are not very good anymore so why bother?” But I knew I wanted and needed to paint, so I followed the whisper to get out a canvas board, splash on the paints, and got wiggly with pens, inks, glue, oil bars and much more. The result was a piece I gifted to a friend as a wedding present – two hearts – each representative of them. My hope was for the painting to capture their characteristics of being fun-loving, colourful, cheeky, loving, wild adventurers who have a zest for life, and to wish them many happy years ahead.

Do what you love, love what you do
I’ve taken these words from the wonder woman, in fact the wonderful woman that is Holly Tucker, OBE. For me this post is all about doing what I love, and loving what I do, whilst sometimes stepping outside my comfort zone. This includes riding my bike, being immersed in nature, painting and being creative, reading books and being inspired by the story that unfolds on the pages, travelling solo, going paddle boarding solo, and making stuff up as I go along – following my whisper and intuition.
I’ve noticed that as I become more aware of what I love as a person, I create more of what I love around me. Being able to be quiet, to quieten my mind is a super power. It’s funny that I crave quiet, but have also previously been scared of quiet. Now I embrace quiet, the meditative state that comes with it, the clarity of mind that follows, and the joy of the experience. Every day is indeed a gift and for every day I’m grateful.
And if ever you’re in doubt, remember we are all, each and every one of us ‘Great and precious things’.
With joy and colour,
Emma 🧡
Header image and body images taken by me.





































